Do the Work.
Get the Results.
Don’t gamble with the most important relationship in your life.
I use a method of couples counseling that has turned the relationship around for thousands of couples.
Let me help you.
What’s Your Problem?
~My partner is lazy.
~I can't remember the last time we had sex.
~My partner won't keep agreements.
~My partner is hyper-sensitive.
~I'm willing to do the work but my partner isn't.
~My partner puts their family above us.
~My partner can't stop flirting with other people.
~My partner has unrealistic expectations.
We're more like roommates than lovers.
Nothing is ever good enough!
~My partner doesn't have my back.
~I'm always last on my partner's priority list.
~My partner just doesn't get me.
~My partner lives in their own little world.
~I don't know if I can do this anymore!
~My partner can't let go of the past.
~The Ex is ruining our life and my partner does nothing!
~My partner is lazy. ~I can't remember the last time we had sex. ~My partner won't keep agreements. ~My partner is hyper-sensitive. ~I'm willing to do the work but my partner isn't. ~My partner puts their family above us. ~My partner can't stop flirting with other people. ~My partner has unrealistic expectations. We're more like roommates than lovers. Nothing is ever good enough! ~My partner doesn't have my back. ~I'm always last on my partner's priority list. ~My partner just doesn't get me. ~My partner lives in their own little world. ~I don't know if I can do this anymore! ~My partner can't let go of the past. ~The Ex is ruining our life and my partner does nothing!
Developing Habits for Relationship Success
Avoid the single most destructive attitude in a relationship.
Learn the three mistaken assumptions almost everyone makes about their partners.
Discover the five core differences responsible for almost every conflict.
Practice the two essential ingredients of relationship success.
Most people believe that they have the abilities needed to make their relationships go well.
But available evidence suggests that this is wishful thinking.
Studies suggest that most people don’t meet the prerequisites for relationship success. It’s not surprising then, that half of all people who marry in the U.S. eventually divorce, and at least half of the couples who stick it out are unhappy with their relationships.
Most of us don’t have the habits needed to make our relationships thrive over the long haul. In fact, most people don’t even know what these crucial habits are.
But studies show that they are not optional.
If you want your relationship to go well, you simply must have them.
Why work with me?
A Clearly Defined, Step-by-Step Approach.
You’ll never wonder what the plan for improving your relationship is. I will assess your relationship and discuss my recommendations for you ahead of time. You will know exactly what you’re signing up for. The guidance is practical, step-by-step, and straight to the heart of the matter. I’ll pinpoint the changes that you need to make, guide you through the tough conversations, and steer you away from the rabbit holes that can sidetrack progress.
The PET-C Method
Detailed in the books, Emotional Intelligence in Couple Therapy, and Developing Habits for Relationship Success, The PET-C Method is scientifically-based, drawing from long-term research studies that have identified exactly how people who are good at getting their partners to treat them well go about doing it.
When you feel that your partner is doing something that’s selfish or insensitive, it might seem to you that s/he is the one who needs to change. But studies suggest that the most potent predictor of your partner’s willingness to change is your reaction to his or her selfish or insensitive behavior.
One of the habits that are not optional involves the ability to react effectively when your partner says or does things that you don’t like.
The book Developing Habits for Relationship Success will guide you step-by-step in learning about the set of habits that are so highly predictive of relationship success.
I’m Jacob Winkler, LCSW.
New Jersey License: 44SC05741800 | New York License: 086536 | Texas License: 109892
You’re tired of having the same fights.
You hate going to bed angry, feeling hopeless.
You need to be seen and heard.
But everything you’ve tried hasn’t worked.
You wanted so much more for yourself.
It doesn’t have to be this way.
You feel alone, but you don’t have to be alone. Call me today.
With the right help, you can create a relationship that is better than you’ve ever experienced, or even imagined.
Skeptical? Good. You should be. A lot is at stake.
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